A former swimming teacher in the High Peak has been given a 15-month prison sentence and seven-year restraining order after subjecting his partner to two years of abuse.
William Goodayle, 39, of Monsal Avenue in Fairfield, Buxton, was found guilty of controlling and coercive behaviour at Derby Crown Court.
Temporary Detective Constable Victoria Atherton said: “William Goodayle’s manipulation, violence and controlling behaviour has had an enormously damaging effect, leaving his partner to feel afraid in her own home – a place that should be safe and secure. Instead, it was a place of fear and anxiety.
“Goodayle’s belittled and constantly bombarded her with messages about how he expected her to behave which were often derogatory about her gender. His offending was insidious. It robbed his victim of her independence and drove her away from family and friends.
“Such was the control that Goodayle inflicted was that, despite the concerns of her family, friends and colleagues, she felt she could not tell them the truth of her situation for fear of repercussions.
“Sadly, this is is not unusual with this type of psychological abuse in relationships, and that control often continues even when relationships end and as can have long lasting effects on the victims mental and physical health.”
It is hoped that the story will encourage others to reach out for support and to report domestic abuse.
Temp DC Atherton added: “Breaking the cycle of abuse is hugely difficult. It can take many attempts, but I would urge anyone who sees their own situation in this story to seek help.
“I would like to commend the victim for her courage in what has been a challenging and prolonged investigation. I hope that the outcome and subsequent restraining order will offer her some reassurance and closure so that she can enjoy her family life free of abuse.
“As a force we are clear that this type of behaviour is not love – it is abuse. You do not have to live in fear and support from officers and specialist organisations are ready and waiting whenever you need it.”
Domestic abuse can affect both women and men and can occur in same sex relationships. Used to control a partner, it can be physical, emotional, sexual or financial, as well as repeated, random or habitual.
If you're a victim of domestic abuse, or know someone who is, there are a number of ways you can report concerns.
- Use the online contact form at https://www.derbyshire.police.uk
- Send a private message to the Derbyshire Constabulary Facebook page
- Direct message the contact centre via @DerPolContact on Twitter
- Call 101 or if in immediate danger dial 999
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